Me going into 2019
One of the happiest couples I’ve ever seen
a gentle reminder that you did well this year. you met new people, learned new things and felt new feelings. you did so many things that made you scared. you picked yourself up off the floor after feeling completely defeated or heartbroken. there were some really tough nights but you survived them all. you made people happy just by existing. you accepted many goodbyes but the serendipitous meetings made up for them. it was your own hard work that paid off but you always downplay it or compare yourself to others. that’s not fair on yourself. you’ve come so far from the first day of this year. you have more wisdom and strength now. yes, other people seem more “successful” but does that even matter? please don’t think so lowly of yourself to only think about your failures. 2018 was your year of growth. I hope you take a moment to be kind to yourself, and believe that 2019 will be even better.
“Stevie Nicks surrounds herself with girls. Wherever she goes, she brings girls. “I can’t imagine you in a bathing suit,” someone says in an interview for Rolling Stone, when Stevie says she likes to play in the pool in her backyard. “Yeah, well, you never will,” Stevie says. “And there is never — ever — a man in the backyard. If there is, he is banished to the front of the house.” Men don’t get to look at Stevie Nicks unless Stevie Nicks wants men to look at Stevie Nicks.”
— (via bjorkdoll)
this cleared my skin & brought me a bountiful harvest
For the first time ever, over 100 women have been elected to the House of Representatives.
to my Jewish followers
You are loved. Take care of yourselves today, tonight, always.
Best thing you can do as a man is understand on a deep spiritual level that no woman on this earth will ever need you. You are not necessary for the fulfillment of a woman’s life. A woman choosing to have you in her life is a gift, a privilege, that can be revoked at any time and it’s up to you to earn, honor, and maintain that place in that woman’s life. A woman is whole and complete without you and will continue to be whole and complete regardless of her involvement with you. If she wants you in her life, key word “wants”, she is giving you space she’s carved out and is deeming you worthy, so fucking act like it.
My first time holding a sloth today 😭
FOR THE LOVE OF EVERYTHING THAT’S HOLY
TURN ON THE SOUND
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